Chapter 498 House Rules! House Rules!
After dinner, the family came to the conference room in the east wing.
The conference room in the east wing room was later changed. As the Su family members became more and more, the Su home was also changing at any time.
In the past, the security and housekeeping nannies of the Su family basically lived in the courtyard, but now the Su family is about to add children, and there are ten children at once.
It’s okay to say that the child is too young and must live with his parents.
But when the child is older, he will definitely move out.
The room will definitely not be enough at that time, so the housekeeping and security have to be moved out.
Fortunately, Su Chen bought a lot of courtyards and residential buildings nearby before. When he bought these yards, he wanted to use them for the backward homes of the housekeepers and security guards. Now even if they move out, they don’t have a place to live.
The main courtyard now has three rooms in the main courtyard, which should have been seven, but later it was renovated and the middle was opened.
There are three rooms, the living room in the middle, which is as big as two rooms. It is mainly used to entertain relatives and friends. If the relationship is not in place, it cannot be entered at all.
The family is here when they eat.
On the left side of the living room is the bedroom. The Su family lives here. The size of three rooms. The most eye-catching thing in the room is the innermost large bed, which can sleep with thirty people, covering the east and west gables, looking extremely spectacular.
Of course, the reason why Su Chen was so old was not that he wanted to marry so many wives, but mainly for the sake of his children.
When a child is young, he must sleep with his parents. The bed is small and he can't sleep at all.
On the right side of the living room is Su Chen's study, which is also the entrance to the underground treasure room. Some of Su Chen's cultural relics, antiques, cultural treasures, carved handpieces, calligraphy works, and literary works are basically here.
Generally speaking, even the girls rarely enter Su Chen's study because they are all treasures. If you don't pay attention to anything, it will be at least a loss of hundreds of thousands or even millions.
Of course, this is also the place that the three Fatty Brothers Yu, Yu Qing and others yearn for the most.
There is a rumor outside that if you don’t look at Boss Su’s study, you won’t know what wealth is.
There are five rooms on both sides, including three bedrooms, mainly for Gu’s father, mother, relatives and friends to stay.
The remaining four rooms are the conference room, dining room, entertainment room and cloakroom.
Not bad, the cloakroom of a few girls occupied a large room, but this was not enough. The cloakroom of a few girls was working together to convert the bedroom next to the cloakroom into a cloakroom.
At this moment, the Su family, including Dahu, gathered in the conference room.
The theme of the conference room is very warm and the layout is also casual. I don’t want the conference room to be as rigid as it is. There are all kinds of furniture inside.
There are sofas, recliners, hanging chairs, massage chairs, rotating chairs and even swings. The reason for this layout is that you don’t want to be too serious and destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the family.
Only the Su family can enter this conference room. What is the Su family? It is the Su family’s wife and the surname Su. In addition, even Gu’s father and mother cannot enter.
This was proposed by Gu Qingya.
Including the children's education issues, Gu's father and mother cannot interfere.
The elderly are more careful in raising children, but some problems must also be admitted. The elderly often have problems such as outdated ideas, spreading bad habits, excessive pampering, and not talking about science when encountering problems.
If it is an ordinary family and parents are busy at work, there is nothing they can do, and the children can only be left to the elderly to take care of.
But the Su family has one counts one, and one is more idle than the other, so the matter of educating children cannot be left to the elderly.
Gu Qingya attaches great importance to this issue, not only because the elderly have various problems with raising children, but also because of the special environment of the Su family.
Just give an example. If Gu’s father and mother take care of their children, then in normal times, Gu’s father and mother will definitely ask questions such as whether your little mothers are good to you, whether your brother bullies you, how your father is treating you, etc., and will also teach him how to compete for toys, how to compete for food, etc.
Although Gu’s father and mother usually treat a few girls equally, they will definitely be biased when it comes to grandson issues.
Everyone has parents, and the parents of the other girls love their eldest grandson. The parents of the other girls will naturally prefer the children born to their daughters.
In this way, over time, there will definitely be a rift between the children. They will be disloyal to each other, and they may become enemies with their brothers!
Why did the children of big families fight each other in the past? Here is the root of it.
It is said that the environment is the best teacher for children. What kind of family environment will teach them what kind of children.
As a eldest sister, these things must be considered well.
For this reason, Gu Qingya has talked to her parents more than once.
For small families, harmony is definitely the only way to do it, but for large families, rules are definitely the only magic weapon to maintain family harmony and stability.
So this question is also the first question in today's family meeting.
"Today's family meeting has a lot of content, let's come one by one. First of all, it's the children's education issue." Su Chen sat on the big sofa that belonged to him, and slowly said while wearing bracelets.
Alas, since I had a child, I didn’t even have to smoke.
"Actually, to be honest, our family basically comes from ordinary families. When we were young, we basically didn't know what family rules were. They were all what parents said and what we did. At that time, we thought it was a good thing to not have family rules. Even when we were watching TV, we scoffed at the rules in the wealthy courtyards on TV.
I always feel that people must be so carefree and easy to live for the rest of their lives. Are you tired if you have so many rules?
I don’t know what you think? Anyway, that’s what I thought before our Su family.”
The theme of the Su family’s meeting is often very important, but they are not very serious during the meeting, and they also seem to be chatting about family matters.
This is also a habit of changing after the first meeting. Because the last meeting was too serious, the girls were not very adaptable, so Su Chen decisively changed the rules.
"Hehe, husband, I'm the same as you, and I always feel that way."
"It must be the same, after all, no one likes to be bound by rules."
The prostitute smiled and expressed his opinion.
Su Chen smiled. "Yes, rules are sometimes too rigid and not humane. I didn't understand them before, but now I understand them slowly. In fact, sometimes, rules are not to restrain you, but to solve your worries and make you more free and easy.
Think about it, for example, in our family, it is not allowed to say that scolding others when eating. With this rule, we do feel a little restrained when we have dinner and chatting. But you think, if there is no such rule, third brother, what would you do if your elder sister scolds you when you eat?"
"Then I will definitely cry. People scold me for eating the most!" Guo Xiaoshi said with her nose.
Chapter completed!